Thursday, June 19, 2014

Bored..a new way to think

I sound so opportunistic when I write the title. I rather think it was just outburst of my thoughts. While I researched a bit and mixed it with my thoughts it turned out, boredom is good for a person. It will create a desire to do something. The more long a person is bored the more long are his thoughts in process. Don't just ask them to do something what u want them to do or just suggest a short cut to engage them, rather try to create interest in them. I always disagree when some asks me, are u bored. I don't consider I am bored. I think I got some free time and just think quiet. But here is the catch. If u just sit for long time idle, without social interactions, there are high chances u get something called loneliness. It has nothing to do with boredom.

Boredom creates desire to do something while loneliness requires some attention from people or may be it just needs someone around. While people mix up both these things and live in disappointment, I suggest to enjoy boredom. It opens new hopes and interests.  Don't just check your phones when the thought of boredom comes. As children my parents never engaged us all the time, while recently I see many parents very disappointed when thy cannot engage there kids. It's ok for them to be bored.



Super proud

 My little brother is no more little.. He has grown up so big that now he went to a new country to study I feel quite proud of him and also ...